First off, too each their own😇✌️…
And I’ve said this multiple times., Personally I am DADT (don’t ask don’t tell).
I also understand when people live stealth for certain reasons like safety or comfort. Just like those who choose to live unapologetically out loud like advocates.
Same as those who choose to go through legal transition, therapy & SRS; you do and live how best suits your needs and what is important to you.
So I can say that this is going to be a lengthy blog because this is more of an opinion than actual facts.
“…Because there is no way that you can fuck up every day living so bad that you might die.”
However I will say this… Eventually,now that I’m older and “cis passing” way more than the first time I blogged about this subject; I can see me living more out loud then DADT. I have taken this into consideration not only with my recent career change which puts my face out there more than before in the queer community but also because I CAN live my truth. I’ve never been one to rub my trans status it someone said face or always bringing it up in conversation outside of context. But I am fortunate enough that I can live my truth safely and comfortablely. Which not alot of trans and queer people can say. Those that can seem to forget that someone’s , guilty as charge. So I do see myself living a little more outloud in the future 😎